There aren't many people around you who understand the pain your separation or divorce has caused. To you. Your family. Your friends.
Most people will tell you that separation and divorce are the most painful and stressful experiences they’ve ever faced. It’s a confusing time when you feel isolated and have lots of questions about issues you’ve never faced before.
That's the reason for DivorceCare. It's a special weekly support group and seminar conducted by people who understand what you are experiencing. Most importantly, you'll learn how to deal with the pain of the past and look forward to rebuilding your life.
DivorceCare groups meet weekly to help you face these challenges and move toward rebuilding your life. Each DivorceCare session has two distinct elements:
A Seminar with Experts
During the first 30–40 minutes of the meeting, the DivorceCare group watches a video seminar featuring top experts on divorce and recovery subjects. These videos are produced in an interesting-to-watch television magazine format featuring expert interviews, real-life case studies and on-location video.
A Support Group with Focus
After viewing the video, DivorceCare group participants spend time as a support group, discussing what was presented in the current video seminar and what is going on in the lives of group members.
Support Groups
At DivorceCare, you will become part of a small support group of people who are also experiencing separation and divorce. You'll meet others who understand what you are feeling and who will be able to offer you encouragement. You'll also have a chance to talk about the information presented during the DivorceCare seminar. Many participants say the support groups are the most helpful part of the program.
DivorceCare Seminars
DivorceCare features 13 dynamic video seminars featuring 32 renowned experts on divorce and recovering. Click here to see a partial list of these experts.
DivorceCare Leadership
The leadership team for DivorceCare consists of people who understand how you feel and have a real concern for individuals who are experiencing separation and divorce.
DivorceCare is non-denominational and features biblical teaching for recovering from divorce and separation.
Registering
To register, please call 862-2615. If you would like more information, please call the church office at Christ Lutheran Church (862-2615) or Paul Olson PhD, Family Ministries at the Whitefish Church of the Nazarene (862-2433).
DivorceCare Schedule
The sessions will meet twice weekly on Thursdays from 7:00 - 8:30pm, and Sundays from 11:30am - 1:00pm, at Christ Lutheran Church, 5150 River Lakes Parkway, Whitefish.
You are welcome to begin attending the DivorceCare group on any week. Each session is "self-contained", and you can continue through the next 13-session cycle to view any of the topics you have not seen.
| Date |
Seminar Topic |
| Dec 1, 2011 |
What's Happening to Me? — Session 1
This introductory seminar helps answer the question, “Why do I feel the way I do?” You’ll come out of this session with an overview of the DivorceCare program and an appreciation for the benefits of a support group environment. |
| Dec 4, 2011 |
The Road to Healing / Finding Help — Session 2
This video segment helps you begin to identify the many losses that occurred as the result of your divorce. It also introduces strategies you can use to begin the process of healing from your separation or divorce. |
| Dec 8, 2011 |
Facing My Anger — Session 3
This video seminar deals with the subject of anger, a nearly universal response to the pain and stress of divorce. You’ll gain constructive suggestions for dealing with your anger and learn methods for responding to the anger coming from your ex-spouse. |
| Dec 15, 2011 |
Facing My Depression — Session 4
Depression can be a paralyzing emotion as you go through divorce. Even so, it can also be a “healing emotion,” and this video seminar explores constructive responses you can employ to deal with depression. |
| Dec 18, 2011 |
Facing My Loneliness — Session 5
After divorce, many people respond to their loneliness in ways that will cause them even deeper pain. This segment explores healthy ways to overcome the loneliness that will inevitably arise during your separation or divorce. |
| Dec 29, 2011 |
What Does the Owner’s Manual Say? — Session 6
This video seminar explores real-world answers from the Bible on issues related to separation, divorce and remarriage, presented in an easily understandable format. |
| Jan 5, 2012 |
New Relationships — Session 7
The loneliness that comes with divorce will put you at risk when making decisions about new relationships. This session helps you determine whether you are ready for a new relationship and how to get it off on the right foot if you are. |
| Jan 8, 2012 |
Financial Survival — Session 8
Most people are stretched financially during divorce. This video segment offers you practical help on how to survive and ways to deal with the many money issues that you’ll face during and after divorce. |
| Jan 12, 2012 |
KidCare — Session 9
This video seminar helps you understand the effects of divorce on your children and offers practical suggestions for being an effective single parent. You’ll also learn how your children are processing the divorce and how you can help in their healing. |
| Jan 15, 2012 |
Single Sexuality — Session 10
How do you deal with your sexuality after divorce? This important session will help you understand sexuality from God’s perspective and see that it is possible to be single again and satisfied. |
| Jan 19, 2012 |
Forgiveness — Session 11
The hurt that comes with divorce is a barrier that prevents many people from forgiving their former spouse. This seminar shows you why forgiveness is important and how you can begin the process of forgiving. |
| Jan 22, 2012 |
Reconciliation — Session 12
Reconciliation is one of the most misunderstood aspects of the divorce healing process. You’ll learn that reconciliation can happen even if your marriage is not restored and why it’s important to pursue reconciliation. |
| Jan 26, 2012 |
Moving On, Growing Closer to God — Session 13
How can God produce something good out of something as bad as divorce? This segment will show you how to grow closer to God as you go through your divorce experience. |
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